It’s true that we all
need some time to spend with our self so that we can identify our positive and
negative things but what would happen when the time is much more and we spend
lots of time lonely. This article is for them who think that some part of their
life they feel the “Loneliness”. I do not know how many people will read this
but whatever the numbers, their inspiration always be inspiring me to write
something more.
I divided this
article of loneliness according to different part of our life. At first in
infancy time we don’t feel lonely, because our parents, relatives and our
friends accompany us deeply. So let’s start from the adolescence period. I have
several good friends whom I share my good and bad feelings but there are
several persons who don’t have good friends or whom they considered as a good
friends after sometime they betrayed them. So from that time they are alone and
getting feared to make good friend. At that time we need some life-partner
(bf/gf) or good friends who can understand us well and at our bad times they
stand beside us. But how many of boys are lucky to get their desired gf (girl’s
plz forgive me for the Unpleasant truth)? So they are addicted with alcohols or some other drug
products. Same things happen for girls also. Suppose consider a girl who don’t
find a boy-friend and her friends are mostly coupled. So at that time some jealousy
comes within her mind and maybe she is not able to say her feelings to her
parents or her parents don’t have the opportunity to hear this in front of
their daughter for their job. So she feels singleness. Same thing occur for a
boy also who don’t find a job at that age but most of his friends found it.
There are several examples at this period and few I have stated above. I think
it is the best time when many of us feel this.
Next comes to post-marriage
life. If the husband is busy for his job and couldn’t give time to his wife
then his wife feels this. For the other side, we see several relations where
couples are not bonding well and most of the time they couldn’t comes to a
solution. So both of them face this problem. If there exist any extramarital
affair to any side then I think they understand this and many times we see they
choose to end their life.
Lastly at our old days most of
the people almost enjoyed everything from their life. They don’t have the power
to go here and there. Their children are busy for their job. Now we can feel
the situation of an old man who had lost her wife. He doesn’t have anyone whom
he shares his agony. The opposite case is quite common in our life. But in that
case also several old women feel this for their family problem. Things will be
doubled if the old man doesn’t have any boy and his only daughter got married
to some other family. In that case most of the people go to the old age home
where different people come with different problems.
After giving this kind of
examples whatever I want to say that each of us feel loneliness in some part of
our life. It’s quite natural. I believe more we grow up; we will not be
surrounded so many people. Just consider the numbers of friend we had in our
school or college days is keep decreasing in our professional life. Our life is
just like a triangle. The more you want to go to the top from the base you will
observe it is matching to a point. Some
solutions are reading the story books, writing something, watching movies and
gossiping with friends. I feel that there is an utter
need to release the inner demons to move forward in life. We have to overcome it and
keep in mind so that it could not affect in our life.
P.S. :
Please
forgive me for my amateurish English. There may be some parts of grammatical
errors are there. I will try to get better and better I promise... :-). Keep
reading.
