Me & My Loneniness

It’s true that we all need some time to spend with our self so that we can identify our positive and negative things but what would happen when the time is much more and we spend lots of time lonely. This article is for them who think that some part of their life they feel the “Loneliness”. I do not know how many people will read this but whatever the numbers, their inspiration always be inspiring me to write something more.

I divided this article of loneliness according to different part of our life. At first in infancy time we don’t feel lonely, because our parents, relatives and our friends accompany us deeply. So let’s start from the adolescence period. I have several good friends whom I share my good and bad feelings but there are several persons who don’t have good friends or whom they considered as a good friends after sometime they betrayed them. So from that time they are alone and getting feared to make good friend. At that time we need some life-partner (bf/gf) or good friends who can understand us well and at our bad times they stand beside us. But how many of boys are lucky to get their desired gf (girl’s plz forgive me for the Unpleasant truth)? So they are addicted with alcohols or some other drug products. Same things happen for girls also. Suppose consider a girl who don’t find a boy-friend and her friends are mostly coupled. So at that time some jealousy comes within her mind and maybe she is not able to say her feelings to her parents or her parents don’t have the opportunity to hear this in front of their daughter for their job. So she feels singleness. Same thing occur for a boy also who don’t find a job at that age but most of his friends found it. There are several examples at this period and few I have stated above. I think it is the best time when many of us feel this.

        Next comes to post-marriage life. If the husband is busy for his job and couldn’t give time to his wife then his wife feels this. For the other side, we see several relations where couples are not bonding well and most of the time they couldn’t comes to a solution. So both of them face this problem. If there exist any extramarital affair to any side then I think they understand this and many times we see they choose to end their life.

        Lastly at our old days most of the people almost enjoyed everything from their life. They don’t have the power to go here and there. Their children are busy for their job. Now we can feel the situation of an old man who had lost her wife. He doesn’t have anyone whom he shares his agony. The opposite case is quite common in our life. But in that case also several old women feel this for their family problem. Things will be doubled if the old man doesn’t have any boy and his only daughter got married to some other family. In that case most of the people go to the old age home where different people come with different problems.

        After giving this kind of examples whatever I want to say that each of us feel loneliness in some part of our life. It’s quite natural. I believe more we grow up; we will not be surrounded so many people. Just consider the numbers of friend we had in our school or college days is keep decreasing in our professional life. Our life is just like a triangle. The more you want to go to the top from the base you will observe it is matching to a point.  Some solutions are reading the story books, writing something, watching movies and gossiping with friends. I feel that there is an utter need to release the inner demons to move forward in life. We have to overcome it and keep in mind so that it could not affect in our life.

  P.S. : Please forgive me for my amateurish English. There may be some parts of grammatical errors are there. I will try to get better and better I promise... :-). Keep reading.

Diffrent situations at office

Today I will tell you two sparse situations at my office. It may not be the proper thing to share at blog, but I thought I should tell you the experiences that I faced in two different days at my office.

The first one was a story at my training time. For reader’s interest, I am mentioning that our office generally start at 9 am. On 10 am there are very few persons arrive, maximum people arrive on or after 11 am and they stay till 8 to 9 pm as we have 9 hours shift. But depends on work we even stay further. We were 7 new joiners and we were divided into two shift. First one 8am – 2pm and second one 2 pm – 8 pm. I chose the morning shift. So I have to come before 8 am. At that time I did not know the normal time of people to come at office. So within 7:45 am I reached at my office. It took 1 hour to reach to the destination in a cold winter. When I reached at the reception, the security men astonished to see me at the odd timing. As our company is a MNC company so people are working 24 hours. Generally the night shift people go home at 7 am. So when I entered the office there were very few countable people were working and some of them prepared for leaving. I was going towards my ODC(technical name of a room where I am working). There are several ODC for different jobs. In my ODC there are more than 70 people are working. After punching my identity card at the ODC’s door when I entered at our room I was surprised to see that the room was empty and dark. Only the luster of sun was coming through windows. May be it is very common to very people who come first at ODC, but for my case it is totally new. First I switched on the lights and went to my sit. There was no scream of calls, no voice of people, so it was absolutely pin drop of silence. I went out of my ODC and saw there was hardly 1 or 2 people were there at different ODC. Similarly there was some where no one present. I took a cup of coffee and went back at my sit and start working. After an hour my colleague came and some other people was coming slowly. Then it was again normal condition and ODC got back its charm.

The second one was totally contrary to first one. It was a story of late night at my ODC. I stayed till 8:30 pm before that day. But on that day 8:30 pm was just evening. At the evening I came to know that tonight we have to stay till night for some urgent work. I thought it will be maximum 11pm. All the people started leaving after 8 pm and at 9:30 pm it was only our group that means 12 people including manager. At 11 pm our manager told us to take the dinner. He had ordered mutton biriyani with chicken afgani. It was no doubt delicious food for all of us to bolster some energy for night’s work. After completing our dinner we went down at ground floor (we sit at 6^th floor) and went outside of gate for some relaxation. It was a pleasant weather with cold air blowing. After coming back we again started work. We all booked our respective car as there is a rule of our company that after 11 pm they provide you cab to reach you safety in your house. We first booked 12 am cab but as we have not finished our job so cancelled the first one and booked the 2 am cab. We finished our job at 1:30 am and went down to catch my cab. Catching cab was also the first time experience for me as I have mentioned that I did not stay till night before that. It was an ambassador and I saw that there was 4 people’s list on that car. One was at Dunlop, then me at alambazar, rest two were dakhineswar and dankuni respectively. It was one girl and we three boys and our dedicated old driver. When I entered at the car I saw that the girl was already seated and the rest two boys was standing outside of the door. I took the seat of beside driver. Our car started at 2:10 am after completing its formality and running on an empty road. I came to know that the other three people were from BPO job. So they used to return at night but for my case it was totally exciting. It took only 30 minutes to reach at Dunlop(which normally take nearly 1 hr) and the Dunlop lady took the car to her house and got down. Then it was my time. I took the car in a narrow lane thinking that it will be shortest distance to reach, but after going some distance I saw that there was a puja pandel which blocked the road. So the driver again went back and chose a different road. He and the rest two boys were become angry to me. They could not say anything but on that time I became prune to them. Driver said “you should know the information whether it was blocked or not”. At last, I reached my house ending my night journey from office.

Hachi: My dog's story

Today I will tell you a repentant dog’s story. We all know that dogs perform many roles for people, such as hunting, herding, pulling loads, protection, assisting police and military, companionship and many more. This impact on human society has given them the nickname "Man's Best Friend". In my story the affection of man towards this animal is just like another example….

        This dog didn’t belong to our locality, even I had never seen her before. One day she entered our garden with pregnancy. My family members were insistent about not keeping this newly guest. But after seeing her condition my mom said to keep her  on a remote place of the so called vacant place, garden. We also gave her some food and water. On that day she gave birth of two puppies. I remembered that the time was winter. So when the temperature went down in the evening the puppies trembled and barked in a soft voice. I went there and gave them a bale of jute to cover their body and put them on the bale. (For mentioning, they lied on the ground). The first night went on and in the morning when I went there I saw that the bale was 10 miters apart from them. That’s why we say clarified butter is not digested on dog’s liver. Days were going on and after some days puppies started to walk. I remembered when puppies couldn’t walk, their mother all time grappled them and never moved on throughout the day. This happened 3-4 days, and when they started moving, only once or twice their mother went outside for her personal work. Believe me the number of days she was in our room, she never did any toilet or latrine within our house. I was astonished after seeing that .

        After some days she changed her shelter from one place to another in our house. We were giving them proper food and water. But the saddest thing was after some days one of her puppies died. That day I saw the pain of losing her baby. Neither she moved from that place nor she took any food. All time holding her another baby and the dead animal was also within her reach. On the next day she picked the dead baby and tried to place it on a shelter, but couldn’t find proper place and walking here and there with the baby. This looked uncleanness to us. So when she took her dead baby outside of our house, my father took the other baby and placed it outside and closed the main door. After some times she returned to our house and seeing the door closed she scratched and pushed the door. But we had not opened the door. Day was going on and when the night came she again scratched and pushed our door. I would never forget the distressed voice of hachi on that night. She was coming  within an interval and went back in vain. Even at 1 in the night she howled and wanted to see her children. As she thought that her child was within our house. Once I thought to open the door just to watch her that there was no one in our room, but again thought if she didn’t go out. So I didn’t open.

        Now the junior hachi is growing up and run here and there. Even now when I returned home at night hachi, her husband and baby follow me from the road and come to our house. Sometimes they are waiting patiently at our main door.  I give foods to them and then they become satisfy. Now many of you may ask me a question. Why I gave the name as “Hachi”? Many of you saw the movie “hachiko a dog's story” of Richard Gere. Yes my hachi is the inspiration of the film. Here I am not playing like Richard nor my hachi wait for me in the station, but the kind of affection she gives me is much more than the big budget film. I even don’t know what will happen with me or with hachi in the future, but not being with me in my room she exists in our heart deeply.

Experience @TCS ILP....

ILP(Initial Learning Program),is a training program for about 3 months,which every fresher has to undergo upon joining TCS. My ILP started from  26^th December,2011. On the very day I was very very of excited(or little bit tensed) to join asia’s best IT company, TATA CONSULTANCY SERVICES(TCS). Before sharing my experience, I would like to let you know that my ILP center was in kolkata(saltlake,sector-v). Many of my friends had to go outside Bengal for doing this training, some of them were in Hyderabad and some were in Trivandrum, and some were kolkata too. So, as you would have already guessed, we were divided into 3 groups by the TCS people.

At last the day arrived. We were informed to report at 8:30 am at sector-v TCS office.  I went there around 8:15 am and upon reaching I saw many people like me were waiting outside the gate, more were coming. There were some known faces, my friends who have been recruited with me from our college and mostly unknown faces as well. We were instructed to come inside the gate one by one with a valid ID proof and TCS offer letter. Then we were seated in an auditorium room for introduction. First 2days went doing the paperworks which is necessary for new joinees.

From the third day onwards we were shifted to CMC building (Vishnu Tower) for our training. We came to know that our training will be on Java/J2EE and shift was 9 am to 6:30 pm. First couple of days were boring for me. We talked with each other throughout the day in a 4 wall bounded room and time to time sir came and taught us. I told my friends, who was yet to join till then, how we face the problems. Believe me we seemed like being in captivity. The only difference was that we were getting a salary at the end of the month.:). That time security guards were very strict on us. If we did any kind of small mistake we were picked up and taken to the Admin. Some times we were very much angry at them. Also it was the time when we came out college platform to office. So there were several rules and regulations you have to follow. There were 3 breaks within the shift. From 11:00-11:20(tea break),1-2(lunch) and 3:50-4:10(tea). In our room there were 32 people and 26 are from MCKVIE(my college). The rest 6 are  from NIT,shilchar

Days went by,slowly and gradually. After some days training started properly. We had two faculty. Mr. Subhadeep Ghosh(tech-lead) and Mr. Rajeev Vaidya(bizz-lead). Subhadeep Sir looked into technical topics and Rajeev Sir assigned to soft skills developing. Monday to Thursday was formal day(i.e u have to wear formal shirt and pant) and Friday was business day(u can wear jeans and collared t-shirt). Sometimes we wore blazer for presenting the presentation. Life felt good and most important point was that I am an employee now.

After some days we were divided into group of 5/6 people for doing a project. In our group we have Ankur, Nitin, Shiv, jai and me. Only Shiv is from NIT silchar. We have total 6 groups and believe me I got the best group of working people. We all worked properly and frequently we needed to give some presentation about the development status of the project and some bizz skill  presentation(just like how to sell a water purifier or vacuum cleaner). Sometimes we did some team building activity like jigsaw puzzle, how to make paper boat in a fixed time, some kind of innovative things with paper etc. Soft skill classes were refreshing for us after 3 technical classes (as we have 3 technical class and one soft skill class in a day).

We enjoyed each and every moment day by day. We celebrated friend’s birthday with cake, samosa, cold drinks , chocolate with a group. As we are from same college so much more mischief kind of work from our room. Most of the time complain went from our room for our behavior. Even, at one time a faculty refused to take our class, but then on our sincere he resumed classes.

Last few days were some happy or sad moments are there. We share our experience, friend’s nature in diary. Now it was the last day at CMC when we conducted our farewell with our teachers. Some of my friend sang some songs. Even I sang “awesome sala” ,one of Bengali entertainment program ‘mirakkhel’ song. But it would not have been complete if our tech lead had not sung the song “Jodi tor dakh sune keu na ase tobe akala cholo re”. The way he sang is truly awesome. We all gave a standing ovation for this performance. Then there was a closing ceremony at auditorium for releasing us. There were heart touching songs, some stunning dance performances and some comedy scripts performed by our friends.  Lastly it would be unfair if I don’t say the commendable job by our CRs for guiding us and helped us when we needed.  we still miss our lady CR famous dialogue “K17 I have an announcement”…….

Akdin Train e

Akdin akta kajer jnno haldia giechilam.Ghotonata Haldia thek asar pother ghotona.amra Mednipur-Howrah local e Mecheda thek howrah  phirbo bole utechi.Train ta motamuti vir ei chilo.ami tao akta sit peye gelam bosar jnno.amr samne akta bacha meye tar baba mar snge chilo.meyeta class 1 e pore.se or babar kole darie chocolate,chips,muri etc khete khete jachilo.aste aste kotha bolte bolte meye tar snge kotha bolte suru korlam.khub ei chonmone meye ta,oi compartment er onek lokei or dike takie chilo.khub jolly r majhe majhe khub hasir kotha bolchilo.amra sobai mile or kotha sunte sunte time Katie dichilam.amk o A-Z thek suru kore akta rhyme,akta mango er paragraph sobei sonalo.erom onek kotha bolte bolte or akta kotha amr khub mone lege galo,kothata holo “Vogoban kal sokale jano bristi hoi,amr oi  somoi khub ghum ase”.meyeta morning school e pore.sokal 8ta thek or school suru hoi.tai bechari meye tak sit-grisso-borsa ghum uphekha kore chokh rograte rograte uthe porte hoi.or mathai akno ase ni j pore ki hbe,se shudhu ei tai bojhe j tar sokale uthte boso kosto hoi.majhe akta sikh uncle amdr compartment e uthlo.taro meye tak khub valo lege galo.se khusi hoye meye tak prothome 1ta abr pore ro 1ta toffee dilo.meye ta toffee ta k khabe bolchilo,kin2 amdr jamon manosikotha thake tar baba-ma o tar batrikome non.unara loktar ei toffee deba ta valo vabe nilen na,meye tak bollen toffee gulo bari gie khete.bole baba pocket e dhukie dite bollen.jnina meyeta bari gie toffee gulo kheyeche kina kin2 ei kothata bolte pari meyeta toffee ta khete cheyeo tar baba ma khete dilona bole sikh uncle tar aktu mon kharap hlo.ami onar mukher dike cheye chilam,dklm kothao jano tar mon ta aktu kosto pelo.hote pare ami vul,bt eta amr mone hlo.hoito tar samne khele tini aktu khusi hoten.tarpor oi uncle ta akta sada kagoj e akta logical reasoning er moto akta math er solve kore meye tar hate die dilen.o ei tar vetor ki lekha ache tao jane na,or baba kagoj ta pocket e dhukie dilen.erom korte korte amdr howrah station ese galo.aaj sobar snge ei golpo ta share korar aktai udesso.bacha meye tar kono budhdhi nei,amra jokhon oi uncle tak dekhie bollm uni vogoban,onake bolo kal jano bristi na hoi,meyeta tokhon oi uncle takei bollen kal jano bristi na hoi.ei meye tar moto erom onek chele-meye erom chokher ghum nosto kore ma-babar bokai jor kore uthete badhdho hoi,amra jdi sobai mile tader ei kosto take metate pari tale koto chele meyer mukhe r tale ei  kothata bolte sona jabena.amon akta somoye amra school take suru kori jokhon tara hasi mukhe school e jete chaiche,jni onek bachai school e jete chaina,kin2 tao amra jdi amon akta upai bar kori jate kono bacharei chokher ghum amra jano kere na ni.aaj ei choto kotha gulo se sob bachar udesshe jara sotti sokale uthete chaina..

Phuchkawala..

Somoi ta 2000 saler porer ghotona.tokhon clas 5 e pori.aste aste boro hote suru korechi sobe.bari thek ma school er tiffin die ditto.sob bondhura vag kore khetam tiffin gulo.kintu tar modheyo majhe majhe school er gate e bosa phuchka,churmur,jhalmuri,alukabri,ghugni,aachar majhe majhe kine khetam sobai.kin2 akhon jeta bolte jachi ta  amdr phuchka ola k nie.loke tar name chandan.tokhon tar boyos chilo 25-26 er moto.or bari bihar e.tiffin balai or thek sobai churmur tai nito.2 taka kore dito.khub taratari mekhe salpatai se amdr dito.ato nun,lebu,chola alada kore debar somoi or chilo na.akebare sob mekhe rakhto.shudhu phuchka gulo fatie oi makha tar snge mekhe upore aktu jhurivaja die amdr die ditto.erom korei din jai.ami aste aste six perie seven e uthlam.majhe majhe lokkho kortam onek 9-10 er dada ra gate die hat barie rakhto r o vul kore onner hate churmur ta die ditto.asole amdr gate er khop ta amdr buker height e chilo.tai jhuke ok mukh ta dakhate hoto.ebr aksnge 10-15 ta hat or dike hat barie rakhto.karor hate poisa ache.keu poisa die dieche,nebar jnno wait korche.r 3^rd type er chele ra holo..he he..taka na dieo hat pete darie ache.ebr chandan dar  akta baje dos chilo o akjoner kore taka ni r akta kore ginis di eta korto na.ake bare 4-5 joner taka nie nito,tarpor tader ditto.er phole onek e jara poisa ditto o na tara o peye jeto.abr onek e ache jara poisa dito tader o bolto 2i poisa disni.erom akta vul bojhabujhi hoto.kin2 tao o aktu jhamela koreo die ditto sobai k.asole or nijer dos to,tai ki krbe bujhte partona.abr jdi konodino dhore phelto tale tader ditona.ei kore cholto.paser jhal-muri r ghugni ola ta chalak chilo,tara 1 joner poisa nito r 1 jon k ditto.jar phole chandan er snge cheleder jhamela hoche bole ora chanda da k bolto 1 joner thek poisa ne r takei de,sob aksnge korisna.kin2 tao o ormei cholto.ebr pathok ra tomra/apnara sune hoito vabchen ami konodino orom korechi kina.sotti kotha blchi 2-3 bar amio jokhn boro class e portam tokhon amio orm korechi.kin2 konodino dhora porini.asole jedin dhoro pocket e poisa nei,khub khide peyeche ba khub echa korche churmur khai sedin oi kharap kaj ta korte egie jetam.asole tokhon hoito konta thik konta vul ta bichar korar boyos hoini,tai onno friend ra jmn korto tader sngei paye pa milie ditam.onek somoi onek dada ra or jhuri bhajar packet tai nie nito jokhon school er chuti hoto r o or gari rekhe kono kaj korte jeto.segulo dekhe amr tokhon ei kharap lgto.kin2 ki korbo kichu bolteo parbona,tai mon ta kharap korei bari chole astam.

Ei to galo motamuti amdr tiffin time r chandan dar glpo.kin2 aaj jei jnno ei lekha ta seta hlo:onek din por akdin orom tiffin time e school er pas die pass korchi.dekhchi chandan sei churmur makhche.aktu boyos bere gache or.akn hoito aktu chalak hye gache.amr snge amr akta bondhu chilo.akbar school tar dike takalam,purono onek smriti mone pore galo.chandan dar dike takie mone mone vablam ei chandan dar moto koto loke dur desh thek nijer attiyo-porijon chere koto kosto kore amdr dupurer tiffin dai,amdr mukher shad ta puron kore.r amra kina tader ei pappo kajer sonman na die tader k taka dichina majhe majhe.jni or onek labh chilo.oi dine jdi 10-12 jon k o free teo dai tao or kichu ese jabena.tao eta amdr kotobbo howa uchit sei 10-12 jon o kano churi korbe.nijek sedin khub oporadhi mone hoichilo.chandan dar moto loke ra rod-bristi upekha kore hajar-hajar chele-meye der mukher shad ta puron kore.din bodhle jai,amra chole jai,tao tara oi phuchkar gari ta nie bochorer por bochor akei jaigai darie thake.tokhon tiffin time,or kache heavy vir hoeche,akbar vablam or snge dacha kore asi.tar porokhonei vablam or akn kotha bolar time o nei r o amk chinteo parbena.tai kichu na bole bondhutar snge kotha bolte bolte path e milie gelam…

KINGFISHER EAST BENGAL CLUB with ASEAN CUP 2003

 

In 2003 at ASEAN CUP, East Bengal club got the invitation to play the tournament at Indonesia. It was a 12 team tournament and East Bengal was placed in Group D with Philippine Army XI of Philippines and BEC Tero Sasana FC of Thailand.
On 14th July East Bengal played their opening match against BEC Tero Sasana FC. East Bengal lost the match 1-0. On 16th July, in the second group match, East Bengal defeated Philippine Army XI by 6-0. Bhaichung Bhutia scored 5 goals with a hat-trick. The other goal was scored by Mahesh Gawli.
In the quarter final East Bengal faced Parsita Tangerang of Indonesia. On 21st July, East Bengal won the match by 2-1. Bhaichung Bhutia and Bijen Singh scored one goal each.
In the semi final on 24th July, East Bengal faced Petrokimia Putra of Indonesia. East Bengal won the match by 7-6 on Penalty shootout. In the regulation time and in extra time both the teams were locked at 1-1.  Bhaichung Bhutia scored the goal in the regulation time.
In the final on 26th July, East Bengal faced BEC Tero Sasana FC. East Bengal scripted history on 26  by becoming the first Indian club to win any Asian level football tournament when they demolished Thailand's BEC Terro Sasana 3-1 in the final of the LG ASEAN Cup in Jakarta.

The victory was even sweeter because BEC Terro is the champion club of Asia and had defeated East Bengal in the first league match of the tournament 1-0.

Burly Nigerian Mike Okoro opened the scoring for the red-gold brigade in the 30th minute, while Baichung Bhutia increased the tally in the 52nd minute before Alvito D'Cunha completed the rout in the 78th minute.

The lone goal for BEC Terro came in the 55th minute, through mid-fielder Anaikongopan.

. It was the biggest international tournament that any Indian Club has won so far. For East Bengal Bhaichung Bhutia, Mike Okoro and Alvito D’Cunha scored one goal each.
Bhaichung Bhutia was the top scorer of the tournament with 8 Goals.

CONGRATULATIONS East Bengal for winning the ASEAN Cup 2003. Wish you the best of luck in the coming tournaments!